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I am pretty sure that he doesn't compare you to the women in those films.
Have you talked to him how you don't like it?
Does he watch them openly in front of you?
My OH watches them occasionally, it has never bothered me, because I know he knows it's not real sex.
But, it is not you.
If your husband is doing this it means that he has a porn addiction.
He would rather live in a fantasy than relaity(as all addicts do)...
I suggest you find some information online about how to go about it now.
If my husband has to watch that-then I would believe that somehow He's not getting what he wants from me.
I know "it's a guy thing". that is their excuse. To me it is wrong- period!