My partner of 4yrs is still in touch with a woman he had an affair with before we met. She was and is still married to the same man. His son and her daughter were dating a while ago and it came out into the open that the ex was texting my partner all the time. He said she had every right to do so and he to answer her. He said it made his son's position easier. Anyway the kids broke up and I mistakenly thought she would go away but no. I had it out with him a few months ago and he told her in front of me that she shouldn't be ringing him. I thought that was the end but no. Anyway a couple of weeks ago I saw on the phone that she had rung. I asked him about it and got a whole bunch of different stories of which I am not sure which is correct. But I did discover that he had rung her this time and talked to her about problems I am having with his daughter. I am more than angry at him for discussing me with her as well as making the connection again. I don't believe there is anything physical between them or I wouldn't even bother writing this because I would be too busy packing. What do you all think, is it okay to keep up the contact considering the fact it was never in the open from day 1 of our relationship and the very nature of their relationship. It was only a fling to him and they do not have any children together. He has said that if she contacts him again he will tell her he doesn't want any further contact with her but he has said this before, he doesn't see what the problem is. I think the contact will continue he will just be more sneaky.
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