I meet someone 7/8 months ago at the gym. We started working out together and he was helping me pick the right exercises and machines. Over time we decided to go check out other gyms and started working out 4/5 days per week for 3 to 4 hours per day. We eventually added weekends and would spend 8 to 10 hours together on Sat. and Sun as well. He is religious and invited me to church. Sometimes we would include my family. I realized that I began to not want to work out without him and thought we should discuss. I told him that I thought we were spending too much together and his response was I am very fond of your family and I dont want to get killed. Before you ask, yes I am married, but we have been working out the details of divorcing. Since i didnt receive an agreement/disagreement to my statement of spending too much time together, I told him that we had a problem as I didnt want to work out without him. He said my training had advanced and he needed to modify my training. So we scheduled more time together. My spouse mentioned to this guy that he wished he was him and could spend that much time with me. He didnt respond to my spouse and that was 2 weeks ago. Since then we continue to spend 3/4 hrs per day working out and our 8/10 hrs together on the weekends (sometimes with the kids) working out and eating out. Whats happening between me and this guy or is this only a friendship?
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