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have you tried sending him a racey im? maybe he's just too busy this week to send one. take the initiative try it.
I will try the racy IM...or a sexy voice mail...Ive only called him once...that being said and a lighbulb going off in my head...maybe he doesnt think Im into him...???
And yes...the sexual excitement is DEFINITLEY there. I left work this past Monday for an afternoon of...well...an afternoon of stuff that I have never experienced before in MY LIFE!!! and then he made me dinner...
But I havent really spoken to him since...
WORK???? You all think so???
((( Butterflies )))
((( rapid heartbeat )))
Experience one or other of those ... or both ?
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does that help, BigBeeper...?
And he makes direct eye contact with me and does not back down...and he groans when he looks at me and licks his lips....TMI???
Ill stop...BigBeeper...your opinion? Is he into me?
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Is 'He' an Actor perchance ?
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No, not an actor...an Aries...
What about the rest of the relationship -- the nonsexual side of it?
Is there a good give and take!!? Do you guys do other stuff and get together when you can both arrange it or are things done always to his convenience?
I'm not suggesting that such is the case, it's just that those are the kind of things that I would be looking at in order to answer the question that you are asking.
Maybe you should get that book that your question sort of paraphrases -- "He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys" by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo.
I haven't read the book, but I've seen that guy on enough talk shows to get the gist of what you look for.
Does he *make* time for you, even if his schedule IS busy?
Here's a line from the book: "Please, if you can trust one thing I say in this book, let it be this: When it comes to men, deal with us as we are, not how you'd like us to be."
If you want to read an excerpt from the book (which is where I got that line from), here's the link: http://64.233.167.104/search?q=cache:F61gfi-4c7YJ:www.usatoday.com/life/books/excerpts/2004-09-08-hes-just_x.htm+%22he%27s+just+not+that+into+you%22&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=4&gl=us
Good luck and happy dating!!!!
Yes, there is a good give and take...or there was until this past monday night. I feel VERY comfortable talking to him and he has shared life experiences with me that are astounding...and he makes me laugh so hard I almost pee my pants!!! LOL...
After Monday, the communication has slowed down drastically...we used to say hi in the morning and Chat on line from when I got home and after the kids went to bed...some of the chat was foreplay and some was just chatting about us...
I had a crissis on Tuesday...I left him a voice mail and he called me back and talked to me until I was laughing about it...
I dont want to bother him...I know that he is busy...he told me that these next three (now two) weeks were the busiest of the year for him. And his best friend, who I love dearly, told me that she was planning on staying away from him for the next two weeks as she does every year...
So my plan is to keep faith and be faithful as we have committed ourseleves to the exclusivity of the relationship and see how things go after the holidays...
It will either be a goodbye, I dont want you or a thank you for your patience and understanding...I hope it is the latter...
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Explains it then, Aries ... away with the Fairies !
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