Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
im having some real bad problems at the moment with my boyfriend i dont know how to cope right now i feel like its the end of everything cos i have told him i cant stay with him, i feel so alone and lost right now im really stressed out and i feel really ill i just want to go to sleep and not wke up cos im in to much pain! does anybody have any ideas of how i can get through tonight cos im on my own and im so scared!
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I can relate. Do you have any friends that can come over or talk to? I'm a talker so I need to talk, IM, or be with people.
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thanks for your reply im pretty lonely right now. ive tried to kind of deal with things on my own cos i dont want to worry them and besides they dont understand i feel like im in a vicious circle
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I'm here if you want to talk. I was with my stbx for 10 years and it's tough. Our marriage was over long before I left and I have started dating. I just posted today that my bf decided 2 weeks ago that we needed to slow things down..to nothing it seems and today after 2 weeks of misery and endless crying, I told him that it wasn't working for me. My heart is breaking and it's only been about 2 months but when there's a connection, there's a connection. I know how it feels to feel completely alone and utterly hopeless. Everyone says only time will make it better but it's so much easier said than done right?!
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thats the famous saying isnt it? it doesnt feel like any thing could help right now. i thaught that we could always get past our problems, how do u no when enough is enough?
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singlemom, i think youre very brave in what you have been through and especially with 2 children,try and stay positive.
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Thank you so much! You stay positive too! You'll get through this..I know it sucks right now, but it will get better and if you need me..let me know.
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