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several weeks ago my bf told me theres no hope for us--iam a big believer in watching what you say and ever since then things have been going down hill.
After some time justbc i wanted to do my hair and missed out on church he called me a bitch and said very cruel things to me---i guess i have a problem but i have not been able to forget what he said---he tends to have a loose tongue when he gets mad and it pisses me off.
well just this past week his ex and a friend planned a scheme of some sort as to say he is gonna cheat on me and all this stuff and its driving me nuts bc its getting to me---i went through this with my ex and now this guy. this whole back and forth thing is not working for me.
I cry my self asleep out of anger each night.
i do love him but this whole thing is getting me to a point where its too much for me to handle
After some time justbc i wanted to do my hair and missed out on church he called me a bitch and said very cruel things to me---i guess i have a problem but i have not been able to forget what he said---he tends to have a loose tongue when he gets mad and it pisses me off.
well just this past week his ex and a friend planned a scheme of some sort as to say he is gonna cheat on me and all this stuff and its driving me nuts bc its getting to me---i went through this with my ex and now this guy. this whole back and forth thing is not working for me.
I cry my self asleep out of anger each night.
i do love him but this whole thing is getting me to a point where its too much for me to handle
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Did I read that to understand that he was initially upset with you b/c you didn't attend church and chose to do your hair instead, but in turn was abusive in name calling and is premeditating cheating on you? If I understood that correctly, it sounds like he may need to attend his church more often or find a new one...
I say that lightheartedly.
you dont deserve that crap.. NO ONE DOES!
I would think anyone that has someone plotting against them, that they would RUN! You deserve so much better than this... God bless you!