I'm in a new relationship and it has been lovely but at times I feel very insecure about where we stand. I am getting a divorce that should be final next month and his should be as well in a couple more. He's a very busy man and treats me well, but he goes back and forth on what level of relationship he wants. He talks about the future but then says he's scared and looking into the future scares him. I have small kids and he has said in the past that he would rather be with someone with older kids or grown kids, he has been more open to my kids lately including them in our future plans but I still can't help but feel this could be a red flag still. He emails me everyday and then some weeks I don't hear from him. I feel like I'm on a rollercoaster and want to stop feeling insecure. What should I do, we've talked a lot and we both are happy with where our relationship is now but I guess I'm always looking for land mines. Guys especially, give me some insight to this. Thanks.
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