Do you have somewhere to go? Anywhere!!? Family? Friends!!?
It's so much harder to solve problems -- to figure out -- these sorts of things while you are still in them!!!
Don't let the fear of loneliness keep you there. You're ALREADY lonely!!!
You will be absolutely amazed at how much good getting out of an unhealthy environment can do!! Once you're out of the 'shit' for a little while, you won't be able to believe that you ever actually chose to live in it!!!!
He's already told you that he can't change. (And of course he probably 'can', but what he has said makes it abundantly clear that he doesn't plan to do so!!)
And really, there's nothing TO figure out. He is not a quality person, certainly nobody that you should be having a relationship with. The only question that you need to answer, at this moment, is where you are going to go. Because you surely should not be THERE!!!!!!
Best of luck, and take care!!!!! No one should be with a shady, selfish liar.
LEAVE!!!!!!!

Girl you got to get away from him he a liar too. OOOOH I can't stand a f^%$&^* liar. Carlabent is right girl you ain't got nothing to lose go stay with a girlfriend or family. Unless your like me cause I let my ex alienate me from all my friends and family and literally had no one cause they were sick of the situation and couldn't wait for us to breakup. But hunny someone loves you and you can go to them you just have to ask and be serious only you can change this. It won't get better until u make the life changing decision. And if that's you in that pic girl u are drop dead gorgeous. you deserve so much more and I hope you can see your self worth soon.

Yeah you need some friends to lean on that can give you some time away! Have as many girls nights out as you can without him!

chuckster I like you shit

So...I take it you're dependent on him financially? If so, that's a biggie. Do you have any skills? Temp agencies are good--I've worked for them when my free-lance business is slow. It fills in the cracks and is not a long-term commitment, unless the position is labelled "temp-to-hire". Temping is a good way to try a lot of different jobs until you find one that you like and suits you.

Any female friends you can lean on? Any family? Hanging out with them until you figure out your next move would proably be the best recourse right now. But, if you need money, and are not working, probably a good idea to get a job, then a small efficiency to live in. I've found that earning and having my own money is a powerful step to being self-sufficient. I'm maybe not self-FULFILLED, but I'm self-SUFFICIENT (laughs).

if you have somewhere else you can go, go there. i also read your other post. you are at a perfect age to say goodbye to this unhealthy relationship and start anew......how about your parents? would they help you? hang in there...life is very hard especailly when we feel alone...