When my boyfriend and I started dating everything was going great. We have been together for five months and he has been living with me for three. Yes I know it is kinda fast for that but it felt right and I still feel that it feels right. Lately though things just seem..Different. Let me start with this. Nobody in my life has ever made a promise to me and kept it. The other night we were watching a movie and he didnt feel good so he had his head on my stomach and I was rubbing his head neck and back. After the movie was over and we were heading to bed I was joking with him and said now it was my turn for a back rub and he said he didnt feel good but promised me he would give me one the next night. So last night I brought it up to him and he said he was tired and went to bed. I was hurt cause this is the second time he has made me a promise and broken it. I don't really care about the back rub so much as the fact that I wanted him to keep his promise to me cause I want things with him to be different than my past. So far it has. He has treated me so well but I also feel like other things have changed as well. I use to didnt have to ask for a back rub or for him to hold me at night. He would just do it. Also we use to rent movie's all the time and watch movies on fri and sat night. We don't really do that to much anymore. It is the little things that we use to do in the beginning that have changed. I know change is a part of relationships and growing but I am not sure how to handle this. I want to be mad that he can just make promises and break them like that and not even realize that it hurts me. Like I said it's not the fact that he didn't do it. It's the fact that you are not keeping to your word and that is important to me. I don't know what to really do..?
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