About two months ago, my boyfriend and I got done having sex. Not even a minute afterwards he texting someone. I jokingly asked who he was talking to and told me it was this one girl. Now he used to date this girl. I asked him what did he say. He then tells me that he told her that he just had sex. I looked at him weird and he tells me we're close like that. I was absolutely weirded out by that statement. I let it go because I can be a jealous mess. I realized that it was completely weird and it started to eat at me. Eventually, I told him that it bugged me. He told me that they only dated for a short period of time and it was a terrible relationship and there was nothing for me to worry about. So I let it go. He had a girl best friend who stopped being friends with him out of no where. I was also friends with this girl so I never had a problem with her. Well after all that happened my boyfriend was basically looking for a girl best friend for advice about me. I had no problem with that. Unfortunately, he started looking to his ex. I told him that I was not comfortable with him talking to her that often. So he told me he stopped talking to her because he didn't want to cause me any discomfort. I believed him until I may have look at his messages and I saw that he messages her almost every day. I know it was completely wrong to do so but I just had a feeling that something was up because he would walk away every time he went to snap chat or text when he was near me. I confronted him and he said that I should have never invaded his privacy but I explained that he should have never lied to me. He keeps putting my trust in question because I get jealous. I'm offended by that because I trust him, it's just that I know when people are lying to me and are nervous about something. I knew that something was wrong. He told me that he would unfriend her but the other day she posted something on his wall on Facebook. He tried telling me that he meant that he would stop acknowledging her. So I kindly asked to unfriend her on Facebook. I'm starting to feel guilty and I'm not sure if I should or not. He told me that he's going to lose a lot of friends for this. I feel like I'm only ruining his life and just completely altering it. I don't feel like I should feel like this but I'm conflicted. We've been dating for almost 2 years and we both have so much invested in the relationship and I want to stop arguing so I feel like this was the right decision. Please give me your opinions.
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