My husband recently told me that he feels like we've grown apart and that he feels like he needs space to figure out what he wants. I am falling to peices. At first I thought I just needed to hold on tighter, but now I am working harder to just let him be. I feel like crying all the time and have even resorted to checking up on him via phone records and such. He and I have both set up counceling sessions but I just want this figured out now. In the past he has turned to another woman for support and they wound up kissing. I can't get this out of my head and now there is a new girl"friend" this time he's been texting with for whatever reason. I can't talk to him about my feelings it just seems to push him away. He has also said that the decsions that have been made over the past couple years we all mine and that he agreed to appease me. I just don't know what to think or do. I hate this awkward cold feeling I've been getting from him. How can we come back together?
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