I seriously need to vent. Okay here's the deal. I lived with my boyfriend in Atlanta and my best friend still lived in our hometown, which was 2 hours away. She started dating a loser, not a surprise, and he abused her so when she finally got the chance to leave she was talking about coming to Atlanta and starting anew. So, I talked it over with my boyfriend about asking her to come stay for a few weeks until she finds a job and a place..he of course said sure. She came and stayed with us and did look for jobs but after so many weeks, in my eyes, it looked like she wasn't really trying anymore. She would say "she felt bad" and that she was trying. Then she started back talking to the jerk and went on vacation with him, only to come back pregnant. She decided she would move back to our hometown with him as soon as he found a place. Well, about 4 weeks later, she miscarried and then stopped talking to him. Now, throughout this, it started putting a strain on my relationship with my boyfriend because we never got ANY alone time. (She has no other friends and doesn't talk to her family so she's there EVERY DAY) So I told her, my boyfriend and I decided it would be best if I just got my own place so we could both have some space and I wasn't going to move out and leave her there so I told her she needed to be out by ______...well the date came and passed and still she wasn't out. I frankly just got sick of waiting and bitching so I got my own apartment thinking once she saw I was serious she would get her ass in gear. But, she's still there. It's going on five months now, and she still hasnt' moved out. I've been gone for a month. And it bothers the HELL out of me. Now, my boyfriend is right in the middle of all this and he's MR. Nice Guy and doesn't want to tell her to leave so he just doesn't talk about it to her. I'm just so stressed out about it. Now she's over there playing house, living with my boyfriend, not really trying to go anywhere (even though she says she is) and I am SOOO fed up. My boyfriend doesn't want me to blow up on her because "he feels bad for her" because of all she's been through. But, I have absolutely NO pity. Did I mention, she just now, after 5 months paid $100 toward bills?? After us both telling her several times to do it. And now she's not talking to me, which I hate her so I could careless, because "all I do is ask her when she's moving out". I just don't know what to do. I mean I want to break her nose and throw her on her ass. And no, my boyfriend is definitley not cheating on me, I'm sure someone will say that. He's just toooo nice. And that's pissing me off too. I mean am I over reacting or what?
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