I'm not sure where to post this question. July for me was 5 years post D-day. Today is my 25th wedding anniversary. I decided to stay, however I would never ever in my life advise any person who had a cheating spouse, to stay. The struggles with self confidence and triggers is a life long battle. It will never go away. I feel like when I'm out and about running errors without my husband, I feel confident and sexy, no matter whether I am dressed up or not, but the moment we go out in public together, I feel ugly and insecure. So I was wondering for those people who actually get divorced, do they also struggle with the same things? I know they struggle with something.... but was wondering if they also have the same triggers that pertains to their previous marriage. If they move on and get remarried, do old triggers from their previous marriage exist, or do they go away? I think I doubled the question, but wanted to make sure people understand my question.
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