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Well, most girls.
Why are girls so mean? Why are they so judgmental? Why are they always in competition with each other? Why do they hold grudges? Why do they talk crap about other people so much? Why are they so immature?
I'm sick of the dumb b*tches I'm surrounded by. They make me feel slightly homicidal.
I was at a concert tonight and it was really crowded on the main floor. My boyfriend was standing behind me holding me really close and kissing my head and dancing with me and everything, but she still felt the need to rub up against him on *accident* as many times as she could. And while she was doing that, she liked giving me the "I'm hot and you're boyfriend probably thinks so too" look, trying to push me out of the way.
Didn't really work out for her when my boyfriend finally told her to back the f*ck off, which made my day.
Another thing. My ex best friend likes to make me feel like shit as much as possible. She's the one that wronged me in the first place resulting in us no longer being best friends. But she's just one of those girls who always thinks she's right and better than you, so yeah...ugh.
Tomorrow I have to drive with her and her *new* best friend (wonder how long THAT will last) and a few other girls for a few hours for rugby matches in different cities. She told me that she's picking up the other girls carpooling with us, but that I have to find a ride to her house so we can "get everything together". First of all, all of my stuff is at my house, packed and ready to go, so there's nothing that I need to get together, especially with anyone else. Secondly, I won't be able to get a ride to her house because my Mom works and no one will be home to drive me. I can't take my own car because I'll be gone for the weekend and we get tickets for parking in the street during the night. So I have to leave it in MY driveway. Third, I live on her god damn street. Driving to pick me up would take 3 minutes. If I walked, it would take 25-40 minutes (long street and she lives quite a few blocks down). So, she basically expects me to walk with all of my luggage and equipment to her house, pack my shit in her car, then drive to go pick up the other girls AS WE PASS my house.
And she's doing all that just to spite me. She tries so hard to be in control of me. I don't know if I should argue with her about it. I certainly am too stubborn to let someone as bitchy and dumb as her get her way. But I don't know. Ugh.
Anyway, I'm rambling. Well, venting, because I'm mad. I hate girls. I hate them hate them soo much. I like WOMEN. Mature ones. Like a lot of you guys here. I just hate teenage girls and some college girls for the most part. Not generalizing the entire population of them....but hey. A LOT of girls are b*tches.
Why are girls so mean? Why are they so judgmental? Why are they always in competition with each other? Why do they hold grudges? Why do they talk crap about other people so much? Why are they so immature?
I'm sick of the dumb b*tches I'm surrounded by. They make me feel slightly homicidal.
I was at a concert tonight and it was really crowded on the main floor. My boyfriend was standing behind me holding me really close and kissing my head and dancing with me and everything, but she still felt the need to rub up against him on *accident* as many times as she could. And while she was doing that, she liked giving me the "I'm hot and you're boyfriend probably thinks so too" look, trying to push me out of the way.
Didn't really work out for her when my boyfriend finally told her to back the f*ck off, which made my day.
Another thing. My ex best friend likes to make me feel like shit as much as possible. She's the one that wronged me in the first place resulting in us no longer being best friends. But she's just one of those girls who always thinks she's right and better than you, so yeah...ugh.
Tomorrow I have to drive with her and her *new* best friend (wonder how long THAT will last) and a few other girls for a few hours for rugby matches in different cities. She told me that she's picking up the other girls carpooling with us, but that I have to find a ride to her house so we can "get everything together". First of all, all of my stuff is at my house, packed and ready to go, so there's nothing that I need to get together, especially with anyone else. Secondly, I won't be able to get a ride to her house because my Mom works and no one will be home to drive me. I can't take my own car because I'll be gone for the weekend and we get tickets for parking in the street during the night. So I have to leave it in MY driveway. Third, I live on her god damn street. Driving to pick me up would take 3 minutes. If I walked, it would take 25-40 minutes (long street and she lives quite a few blocks down). So, she basically expects me to walk with all of my luggage and equipment to her house, pack my shit in her car, then drive to go pick up the other girls AS WE PASS my house.
And she's doing all that just to spite me. She tries so hard to be in control of me. I don't know if I should argue with her about it. I certainly am too stubborn to let someone as bitchy and dumb as her get her way. But I don't know. Ugh.
Anyway, I'm rambling. Well, venting, because I'm mad. I hate girls. I hate them hate them soo much. I like WOMEN. Mature ones. Like a lot of you guys here. I just hate teenage girls and some college girls for the most part. Not generalizing the entire population of them....but hey. A LOT of girls are b*tches.
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In my head...So in my last post, I talked about how me and my boyfriend of little over 4 months and me had our first squabble on Sunday. I appreciate your guys' feedback and see where I escalated and engaged in some very negative behaviors. Thank you!Since then we have been texting the same, but it is a little different. A lot of one word replies and being active on social media without replying...
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I struggle with my confidence in bed. I am someone who is very much into almsot any and everything (with some exceptions) but for some reason, when it someone's to hooking up with someone new I always freeze. I get so nervous, no matter how bad I want it.how can I build my self confidence so I can get over this?
Bless you
My female friend Jami found herself unable to roomate with or even associate with other women either, for the same reason--they're catty and competitive, either over men (which happened in high school for her, even though she was just hanging out with one guy just as a friend and was accused of being a slut and a man-stealer), or simply because they envy her for being smarter, sweeter, more attractive, blah blah blah, whatever. Yes, it's time to surround yourself with less petty and more light-hearted and loving friends.
Good luck over the weekend.
What I really hate is when their guy hits on you(that you don't even like or would think of doing anything with let alone if he belongs to your friend) then after he gets caught doing it you get blamed because if she blamed him she would have to kick his ass out. How pathetic. Of course he is just off to hit on another of her girlfriends. I have very low tolerance for that type of woman.
Anyway, one by one all of the girls on the rugby team came up to me and told me about how immature and how much of a b*tch Haley was to me. I'm so glad it's not just me who sees it.
All of my guy friends (they are so much more fun) told me they can't stand her because she thinks that by being a badass and treating people like crap makes them like her.
Haha. Sucks for her.