In the past on here I've had some problems with the guy I've been dating& living with. Last Wednesday night we had one of our hopefully last psychical fights. Because his Uncle that we room with has said either I go or we both get evicted b/c my boyfriend clearly took the bathroom door off to try and get to me. I really don't know what has happened to us. We both clearly have gone down hill, I'm glad that I moved out, I now moved about 30mins. away, but work right down the street where I used to live, which kinda sux. When I left, we broke up, & I took everything that belonged to me & he kept everything that belonged to him. We didn't talk for a few days after I left, but this past Monday, I gave him back his phone as long as continued to pay for it every month, & we've been talking a bit off and on IMing. I know that it has still been very soon to tell, but we have been different to e/o, I have been realizing what I've been doing wrong as he is as well. We have been actually calling e/o to cry on e/o. It's kinda touching, he says I shouldn't try as hard as I was & to just go with the flow, whatever that means. I am in counseling twice a month & he says that as soon as he gets insurance with his new job, he will as well. Our two year anniversary is in June, & we kinda have been talking of getting into our own place by than. I haven't seen him since I left last Friday, Do you think ppl can change? The thing that helps me sleep at night right now is that he is always home every night & he tells me that he doesn't want to be with anyone else. But why is this so hard, I really don't know what to do or say, or even if we should see e/o, like going out on a date after being together almost 2 years & living together for over a yr.>
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