that would be a blow, to be sure! I would explore couples counseling, depending on the commitment of this partner. Are they willing to go to counseling to see if it can be worked out?

that would be very hard to deal with. especially if my love was as strong as ever. is this something that has happend to you?

Crushed,, specially if I still loved him as much as before!

You can feel any way you want to about it.

I'm more concerned about whether you are listening. It's obvious that he is trying to tell you in some manner that he's concerned about your relationship. Maybe he's asking you to show him that it's not dying for you?

People don't really express themselves very well. I suggest that you work on it a little more and try to determine what the real issue is. Somebody doesn't say that to walk away. They say that because they want to be closer.

completely devastated...and in despair.....how would it make you feel?

completely crushed, i would find out if there's anything that you could do to reassure him that you still love him and to let him know that you would be willing to go to counselling with him, if that's what you truly want..if you still truly love him than i would suggest you do anything you can to make things work out! show him you will bend over backwards for him!

I love my bf deeply, but I show my love in different manners. I feel like emotionally I am the man and he is the female. He would show his love more for me than I for him, but I stil love him. After hearing him say that I am crushed and really get down a lot with or with out him