So it's been a while since my girlfriend that I live with and I have been sexual with each other on a regular basis. I was getting worried because I didn't understand why. I thought it might have something to do with me or maybe she just didn't feel like doing anything. Anyway she recently told me the reason why is because she just doesn't feel pretty. She hates the way she looks and wants to change it so bad. Once I found this out it made me want to make her feel. Not because I want sex, but because I hate that she feels this way. We have been together for a year and I've always known that she doesn't really like the way she looks but here recently it has gotten pretty bad and she has gotten really depressed about it. I'm kind of confused though because I don't know what else I can do to make her feel better. I tell her on a regular basis that she is pretty. For example, If she is getting ready to go to class in the morning and she just did her make up I'll tell her she looks really good, or her hair looks really good today. I tell her how I think she is beautiful and how I honestly see her as the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. I bought her some makeup for valentines day because she LOVES it and loves trying out new looks and using new brushes and colors and stuff, but now I kind of feel bad for it because I don't want to send her a message that says "Hey here is some make up because you are ugly and you need it". I know if I tried to take her shopping for any type of clothes she would just get depressed and say she looks horrible in everything and that she hates the way she looks and she needs to lose weight. I really don't know what else to do and I can really see that this is bothering her a lot. Any advice on what I should do?
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