I am organized, action oriented. I like lists to accomplish (and remember) things. My husband ignores lists. He will promise to, eg. clean up the garage, and never does. We just bought a brand new water softener and he has to 'think about how to install it'. I understand that but know it will take weeks to get done. I just get angrier and angrier at him inside and will eventually blow. If I mention anything about it, he'll be very reactive and make me feel like a nag. I am tired of the games and my garage and basement are total messes, as they are his areas. Can anyone help me? This just drives me absolutely nuts!!! I need some coaching!!!
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