I came home to my parents house for Christmas and I realize after being here for almost a week that my boyfriend is a spitting image of my father...Will I ever have a healthy relationship if i keep picking my father? How do I break that cycle? Don't get me wrong my dad is a great guy and i love him very much but he has never been emotional available. I keep hoping one day I will walk through the door and my boyfriend will be able to give me the availability i need, our relationship is spirling outwards like a tornado and it is coming to an end when i go back home i'm almost positive, which is a whole other issue but for now it really freaked me out to think about the similarities between my father and my boyfriend...I don't want to keep "picking my father"
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