Healthy Relationships Support Group
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My husband and I lost our baby girl on Sept 8. We have barely said anything nice to each other since then. I know that we are both angry and hurt. My problem is that I have nobody but my husband where I live. He is my friend and lover and everything to me, but he doesnt want me anymore. I've lost him also. How do I approach him
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Have you two shared your pain? This is a time for extreme patience with each other!
Let him know you love him, in actions if you cannot talk at this time!
I am praying for you both as well as your daughter!
Hugs!
one thing i do when my boyfriend isn't ready to talk is just tell him i'm available for a discussion whenever he's ready. i'll make some kind of announcement when i walk into the room and he won't talk to me or something. something like, "i feel sad when we're not talking and just wanted to let you know that i'm available for a discussion at any time."
As a father, my suggestion is that you allow your husband to handle this loss in his own way. You can see about him getting some counseling.
I know you feel isolated right now. You can get over that. If you can continue to be there for him without holding this isolation against him, then you'll be doing the best thing for your relationship.