Okay...met my guy a little over a month ago. In the beginning we were all gaga over each other...lots of sex (that hasn't really changed, lol)...texting, calling, etc. He warned me that starting about 2 weeks ago, his work load was going to increase and he wouldn't be able to text me AS MUCH when he was at work. Now, he does seem to make up for it at night with phone calls. And, in the beginning of this "work load change" he would call me about once a day when he was on delivery. I guess I am somewhat a needy person...and really would like contact with him during the day. Especially since we were texting non-stop before, and now almost NOTHING. Im tired of initiating the texts in the morning, so I have stopped, and now I am lucky to get one by noon. He is busy, I know this, and understand it. I guess I just wish that we wouldn't have started out texting like crazy during the day so I wouldn't feel expectant of it, or withdrawn from it. Does that make sense? And idk why he has stopped calling me once a day or so on delivery...I feel some of the newness gone already and I dread it. Isn't that too soon? Or am I just reading more into it that I should? Other things I have noticed...he rarely says things to me first like "I miss you" " I cannot wait to see you" etc...he used to text or say those things quite a bit. Idk...just things I have noticed. We see each other about 3-4 times a week, depending...but I guess I just enjoy the romantic/initial part of a relationship. When we are together, things flow great, natural...we poke each other, play around, generally act silly, hold hands, cuddle, etc...so...I guess I am just curious as to others opinions...I am just not wanting to get hurt...and since the whole "love" situation, I am on high alert.
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