When in a relationship, how much of your innermost self do you share with your significant other? And what do you leave out? If you're feeling lousy do you keep it to yourself so as not to bring your SO down, or do you truthfully reveal your feelings? I just shared some feelings I've had with my SO. I feel like I should have just kept it to myself. I don't feel understood or cared for. He kind of switched the topic to himself saying that he's been feeling that way too, and re described the situation in his words, explaining his truth as if it's the same as mine when it isn't. Then he said he'd let me go we said goodbye and hung up. I felt totally dismissed and trivialized, yet I felt it was futile to say, wait, no, that isn't what I mean at all,... so I just let it go, wondering if he is just the wrong person to share this with. Any thoughts?
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