I have a great boyfriend, we have lived together for three months now and things are going south. I feel like it is completely my fault but I don't know how to change the negative things that I am doing. We are fighting a lot, and I know that the fighting is just because I am always so scared that he is going to leave me so I conjure up these crazy ideas and can't let go of petty little things that he does. He is very sweet and forgiving of me, even when I can't stop always wanting to "talk" about our relationship- I talk about things constantly because I am trying to fix them, but it is only making it worse. Please offer me any ideas as to what I can do to stop dragging out our fights, when a fight is over how do I let it be over and move on happily? And how do I just let go of the little things that don't matter? I really need some help on this one.
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