We have had a pretty rocky few years. He filed for divorce a few months back... Refused to work on things with me.. Basically I am done was what I got... Then all of a sudden he changed his mind and decided he would work on it and booked a marriage counselor for us... He seems like he has been trying at least we are not fighting anymore but I want him to love me and look at me with the passion that he used to.. I feel like I have a roomate.. He is still in survival mode. We were so mean to each other for so long. Our therapist says that as we work on fixing our relationship, things will improve. He doesn't touch me, hold my hand. I have to initiate everything. I thought things were improving but this week I feel like he has withdrawn again.. He is not in love with me and I don't turn him on like he wants apparently.. I need to know how to get that magic back.. Am I grasping at straws?
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