I've had three serious relationships in my adult life,and they've all been disasters. I finally met a guy,totally by accident, I wasn't even looking, and he's so amazing. I made the mistake of telling him how I felt. Now everything is strange, he's hot and cold towards me, and it hurts. He's been hurt too, but I'm willing to take a chance again, slowly, but his version of slowly and my version of slowly are way off. We've tried to set aside any romantic feelings, and go back and start over as friends, but he's not treating me like his other friends. We used to have so much fun talking, now I don't even know what goes on with him, what he's feeling, how his day went, all the stuff he used to tell me before. Before I opened my fat mouth, we had so much fun talking and joking. It's all different now, and I hate how things have turned out. I've tried to fix it, to act like before, but he's not cooperating well. I adore so many things about him, I really think we could have something special if he would just give it a chance. At the very least, I want my old friend back.
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