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...I want to see that movie.
Just wondering...is it true what they say in the previews?
"If he's not calling...if he's not blahblah etc....he's just not that into you."
What about the shy guys?
What DO you do when you're infatuated with a girl?
Just wondering...is it true what they say in the previews?
"If he's not calling...if he's not blahblah etc....he's just not that into you."
What about the shy guys?
What DO you do when you're infatuated with a girl?
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so I confronted my partner (via text because I’m too chicken shit to do it face to face,for receiving and watching videos of women pleasuring themselves) this morning only for him to come home to receive the text when he is home so it becomes a face to face (sorta) conversation/disagreement. I ask what does he get outta watching these videos (and after a bit of deflection and trying for...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
But some are really sweet. Just cuz he doesn't call you doesn't mean he isn't into you...
I hung out with him 2 days ago and he kissed me. And for some reason now I can't stop thinking about him. I'm obsessing over it.
I wasn't even that into him before we hung out. I don't know but there was just something about him and the way he kissed me.
I'm in the clouds. Hah.
What DO you do when you're infatuated with a girl?
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They send shycich messages ?
(said in my best Sean Connery voice)
that took me a second..
Gals who are interested in the shy guy, can improve their initial chances with adopting two opposing approaches, to bring the shy guy out.
Be a coy toy, or a bold babe. Either way if either one is not you he will know. It won't bother him to discover you are somewhere in between. He will love you anyway when you show him all of your other charming attributes. He's initally attracted to both gals at the ends of the spectrum, and... coincidentally all in between.
He will find deep meaning in the reflected light of either gals's eye. Even if the relationship ends he will be able to recall instantly a particular moment perhaps the tilt of her head of the shimmer of light in her hair at some moment in time.
He likely will often forget your name, you might have to remind him that you are 65 and you have 5 kids together but he'll always cherish and never loose that moment no one else noticed but was profoundly significant to him.
If your relationship is successful he will share with you every detail of that meoment, when you dazzeled him if you want to know. Careful it could take 60-70 years.
If your relationship is not successful he will hold that special moment forever and recall it with great joy. Either gals gets permanently implanted on his brain.
The coy gal needs lots of patience but he will reward her well for her patience with his imagination. The bold gal might have to pause momentairly to let him catch up cause he's still enjoying that first smile the bold gal shared