Hi, I dont know how to even start this discussion but here it goes. I have been married for twenty years. It's been a normal marriage. We of course had our ups and downs. We were very young when we got married. For the past six years or so my husband battled cancer and recently went into remission. I need advice on what has just happened. A few months ago, my husband and I were in our hot tub when our female neighbor came over. We all were drinking. She decided she wanted my husband to herself. She started with me first but I was'nt sure I wanted this to really happen. So, she got naked and started working on getting my husband into it. Well, it worked and before long my husband and her were going at it. I felt sick and told my husband to stop which he did. Since then this woman who is thirteen years younger than us has been trying to start a relationship with my husband. She calls him, text's him. Always trying to get his attention. We have tried to get through this but has been hard for me. What is sad for me is that he says he would do it again because it was his fantasy coming true. He is also infatuated with her and the act that they did. I don't know what to do.
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