Need advice on how to recover fro a afrair. Been married for 5 years and together for 7. Had a really bad two years and really werent communicating and he ended having a afrair with his best friend. Its been over for a couple of months we both want to make this work. Since I found out we have built our relationship all over again, its like new. Might sound but its actually better than ever because we have learned that we have to be each others best friend. But my problem is, I can stop doubting him, you know still dont completly trust him yet. And still have flashback (kind of) of all the things they did together what she said he told her. Dont know how to completly get over this or if I ever will. We promised each other last week that we were going to stop arguing about the same stuff and stop comparing myself to her but I cant control what my head is thinking u know.
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