
Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
I've experienced this before. I always felt a lil empty after he left. If i brought it up, it was uncalled for because we were just "having fun." I dont suggest it nor condone the continued use of this term and the actions that result from it. If he cant commit to you, then why share your body with him?
Granted, i dont know the whole situation, but just based on what i read, it seems he's using you still.
As your mama has probably told you,, or your grandmama... Why would be buy the cow if the milk were free! lol (very old saying,, but true)
If you are still intimate with him,, then you in your heart are hoping that it will keep you close until he comes to his senses,, honey he will not,, and how are you going to feel when you find out he is with another woman? Please, be careful.. I know you are hurting over the break-up,, but please do not set yourself up for even more pain!!!
Good luck and I will be thinking about you!
believe all the post above me.. its so true.
Was that a healthy relationship? no. we were both using each other, but we both knew it.
If you want a friend with benefits... don't have it be with someone that you had a relationship with... it is not a good thing. it will chew you up and spit you out a complete mess.