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Esctatically in Love

deleted_user
deleted_user
Is it better to love your partner more than they love you, the same, or less than they love you?
jimmysquirrel
jimmysquirrel
jagielly... you seem like a great guy...i just have a hell of a time deciphering oyur posts:P
don't worry though, i do like hearing from you, your posts might not be easily understandable, but they have great information in them... as for your question... i believe both people need to put in 100%
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think, in every relationship, one party loves the other party more.
deleted_user
deleted_user
If you both want what is best for the other, want to do everything for that other person, and both try to love each other more, then you both have it made.
CarlaBentley
CarlaBentley
It's best when both of you love each other more than the other guy!!!!! LOLLAS!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
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Swings & Roundabouts really.

And slides.

:-)

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deleted_user
deleted_user
I think people "love" differently. Because love means individual things to each person also love is an creative expression in many ways and this is also dependant on individuality. Perhaps it is an illusion in ones own head as to who loves who more - it is just a one way perspective afterall.

I have always felt that my relationship goes up and down and round and round with who is behaving more lovingly. I think think this is the best way because when one is feeling less ooey gooey the other one keeps it all intact with their love for you and vice versa.
koolman
koolman
It's "give and take", but how do we REALLY know that we're giving more than they are? It's not a contest. All we can do is be ourselves and hope to God that the other person matches up to our needs.
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