I am in a 3 year marriage and I find it's easier to live without him. I hold high expectations and I get hurt easily. I have told him it's easier for me to not be in a relationship now and want him to leave for good. I do love him and get lonely without someone. He also comes up with this thing where he says that I need to "meet" his needs too and not listen to only what I want. My needs are to leave him, and his are to work out this marriage. I also don't have the means to move out right now and he won't leave permantly. I know I need to work on myself without the obseesive jealousy I have when I'm with him. He "left" for a month and asked me if I wanted him come home and see me. He still has his stuff at his sisters. Maybe I made the mistake to let him stay with me for the week. And yeah there was no violence in the house and our arguments ended smoothly but yet I still have these feelings that it's easier to be without. What do I do?
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