I was introduced to this guy in June by a close friend.....he called them the next day to thank them....he was all about me for a couple weeks...met the family ..called every day....I had literally just got cheated on in a most awful way and he knew the story.....he left me alone at a family party and suddenly became so cold...I flipped and told him it wasnt what I was looking for the drive home...a couple months later we dated a couple more times casually...then no call for two weeks I called and it was ok he was cocky and said he wasnt looking for anything steady..I broke it off ....then recently we dated a couple more times because I thought I could do the whole no strings attached just fun thing .....he is fun Harley , boat the whole deal...so he bumps it up a notch and started calling more and seeing me more ...truly feel like we really click when Im with him ....like for real stuff......obviously Im deluded...last time we talked thanksgiving....so i left a message (note he didnt answer) saying no biggie he must be seeing someone else but I thought it was rude to say you would call and then not and I wouldnt have done that.....he texted been busy i will call you this weekend.....no call.....
I know suck it up and move on.....its true...but Im telling you how can one person feel like something is so "real" and it obviously meant nothing to the other....he does seem very shy and each interaction was so much sweeter than the last and I felt a connection..or maybe I jsut wanted too....I just hate this part my head knows the right answer but it still hurts....Im usually so good at reading people...I felt like he was into me .....GONE...I know he will call ...randomly he always resurfaces....Im praying for the strength to not ever answer....Im so messed too guys that are on the up and up and want me .....snoozeville....any advice...and yes Im in therapy