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I never have. I know some girls just don't. It bothers me that I don't. Is it POSSIBLE for every girl, but just harder for some? Or is it just that you either can or you can't?
It bothers me because when a guy's pleasuring me down there, I assume he thinks he's not doing a good job because it never makes me cum and sometimes takes a while for me to just climax, so I get self-conscious.
Maybe I just haven't hooked up with a guy who knows what he's doing yet!
It bothers me because when a guy's pleasuring me down there, I assume he thinks he's not doing a good job because it never makes me cum and sometimes takes a while for me to just climax, so I get self-conscious.
Maybe I just haven't hooked up with a guy who knows what he's doing yet!
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BTW I luv sex!
yes, some people just take longer. I have friends that can get off in under 2 minutes. I take 10-15 AT LEAST. it takes a lot of work to.
i can say that from the time i lost my virginity up until 18 or so, i only had maybe a handful of vaginal orgasms. they just dont happen often for me. sex felt good, orgasms just didnt happen. It wasnt until i was 18 that i was able to give myself a clitoral orgasm with a vibrator. after that, it was a lot easier.
however, i was 23 before i was able to bring myself to orgasm with my hand! as far as oral? only 2 people in my life have been able to get me off that way. and yes, a lot of it has to do with how its being done.