Hey all~ I am currently struggling with some issues of anxiety and depression that are getting pretty bad. I have been with my boyfriend, whom I love very much for aboput 9 months..we've known eachother for years..Problem is, we used to be happy, and enjoy being with eachother. Since I've relapsed, he's grown distant, rude, and very apt to start arguments with me. He says its because he just quit smoking, but I doubt that seriously. I have explained to him over over again that I need him to be more supportive, more sensitive to the fact that I'm hurting right now, and to understand what I am going through. He has repeatedly told me that the reason he gets angry is he doesnt know what to do to help me...I find this odd, and confusing...Is he refusing to give into full, consuming love for me and feel compassion for someone who is in pain? He tells me he will always love me, and he's "not going anywhere", but at this point, only after 9 months, I feel like we are doing just that....going nowhere.
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