I (37 yrs) met this guy (43 yrs) 3 weeks ago on a Friday... he called or texted me everyday and told me that he had been watching me for quite some time and more then once said how attracted he is to me. Then on the next Friday he came to the club and waited for me to go up to him to talk. This happened a few times. I know lots of people there and decided to dance with one of my male friends towards the end of the night. We dance to a few songs and he went up to my girlfriend and told her "I didnt know your friend was such a snake" and walked out. I tried contacting him a few times during the week with no response. Then the following week I got him to talk when the night was over. I asked him why he called me a snake and he said 'because you were dancing like this (as he's throwing his hands up and all around". I told him I was wasnt looking for anything but if I see something starting to develope I would not stop it from happening and he said thats how he felt. He said for me to call him the next day so we could finish talking, I told him to call me, he said ok and never did. Again I tried a couple of times texting him and no response. I saw him this Saturday at the club. I said "hi, how are u" and he answered with a smile. He left the club early so at the end of the night I called him. He didnt answer so I blocked my number and this time he answered. I told him "I dont understand why you called me that. If you arent looking for anything then why get mad because I was dancing with a friend" All I got was "Im looking for trust and after what I saw in the back of the dance floor, I told myself forget it" He said he was tired and we would talk tomorrow but of course it didnt happen. Since this happened he is watching/looking at me most of the night everytime he came to the club. Im new this meeting new people......I got divorced this past Feb. I dont understand why he is mad....what am I missing? I am very attracted to him and would really like to get to know him but how?
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