i am looking for opinions. i recently ended a 5 year on again off again relationship with a wonderful man who is a great person but not such a great boyfriend- he just has issues like everyone else-needs space is super jealous and doesnt like to deal with strife, he wants everything to go smoothly. we talk but have been apart for two months or so and hes been talking about how he wants us to move in together next year maybe try things out.we are truly in love always havebeen and always will be which means our relationship is infused with both love and pain, highs and lows. im not opposed working things out at some point but i dont think weve had enough time to grow up or think clearly. so..in the meantime iv met someone. someone who is the complete opposite in looks, interests, character and he is everything that the other is not.t the other is dark, charismatic, athletic and loud. the new is petite, a lead singer in a band and has a wonderful quiet smile and laugh. its that weird situation where you want to pick and choose pieces and make the perfect match for yourself and part of me would be fine dating the one while the other hopefully grows up and just seeing where things go. im not in any hurry to marry or have kids so that helps. anyway i wanted some opinions on wether or not im being cruel by still talking to the first and what other peoples thoughts are on this situation. id really like to just let it go, relax and let life happen but im also starting to see how i need to make choices if i want to be in control of my life and i want to have fun and not hurt anyone or myself in the process
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