I just found out that my step sister is sleeping with my daughter's father. We aren't together, but the thing is I am more hurt by her actions than anything. We've been through this once before. She cheated with my son's father about 7-8 years ago. She got pregnant, she lost the baby, but I just couldn't and still can't understand why she would do something like that to me. I am her sister, step or not we were raised from the age of 2, now we're 31. So come on, twice. I am starting to feel like it's something personal towards me. I mean she has plenty friends, and men that like her, so why pick him of all people. Why twice? Anyway the thing is we have a family get together coming tomorrow and I am wondering how do I handle this situation. I already called her and left a message, because she wont answer the phone, and I let her know that I know, I told her that they can do whatever they want, but stay out of my life. But we have this family get together tomorrow, and I am not sure how to act. I know we will avoid each other. That is a given. the thing is the rumor must be true because she has yet to call back and defend herself. Plus on top of that I told her something and it got back to him. So I am sure it is happening. I just need advice on how to handle this get together tomorrow. What's even worse is my birthday was this last Tuesday, she had nerve to call me and leave a message saying Happy Birthday. To Hell With Her. But How should I handle this?
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