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Bullying,and i`ts effects on relationships

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I know ,and heard of a few faild reationships because of one bieng picked on,and bullyed.The effect`s of this can damage and destroy a persons well being and self confadence for sure.Maybe some one would like to share stories on the topic,or how it effected you as a teen to a adult.This post goes out to a dear friend,and wife and mother of two who who died at 44 due to brain injury and after going trough a childhood of bullying the effects were sadening.She was strong and succsesfully kept her mariage,raised two kids who are now 16,and 20. She died 2yrs ago this month,and she was my cousin.Ihope young people,and bully`s read this post too!
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A Step-Daughter, in my former marriage always complained of being bullied by 'friends' at School. Her stories were endorsed by the fact she was suffering greatly with excma (sp) - a skin comlaint.
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It was the step-daughter who had been carrying out the bullying and there were a whole load of evidence to back this up.
This bullying was there before I came on the scene, so it was not connected with the marriage but certainly did not help it to continue !
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Ithink thats the problem - teens are sooo self involved that its hard for them to see beyond what affects their own selves.
It is soo sadening that it seems to be on the increase both in amount and intensity these days - or is it just that we loose touch and forgett how truamatic it was when we were young?
I am sorry to hear of your cousin, it sounds like you are still grieving for her - i hope you find peace and light.
Cyber-bullying is prevalent. Mobile phones too !
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