My SO and I are having issues dealing with his anxiety. He knows it happens after we've already had a argument. I try my best to see it but I get caught up in the heat of the moment. I feel attacked when he is asking questions about people and being paranoid that I might cheat on him. Which has never crossed my mind. EVER! It drives me up the wall sometimes and I don't know how to cope with it. I see what happened after we calm down and talk about it a bit. He had a stressful day. At work, with the people he lives with, his friends, and or his memories that haunt him and he makes me out to be like all the other people that have screwed him over mentally and emotionally. I feel like I need to make it really clear that I am with him and only him all the time. He still does not feel comfortable in our relationship. I feel like I am walking on egg shells. What would make him more sec me secure? Not only with him self, but with me?
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