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As much advice I can get please!!!

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I need as much advice as I can get on this. There's this guy who likes me and he is pretty much everything I look for in a guy, but I start to feel an anxiety attack everytime I think about going to hang out with him! I don't want to screw this up but I don't know how to just go out, I can't think of the words I'm looking for lol He's such a good guy and I don't want to let this one slide by.....
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Go with your heart! Sometimes those feeling are of excitment and sometimes they signal that something is wrong. Pray about it.
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Nothings wrong,, you are just crushing girl,,, to be your age again,, I would love it!!!
Of course I would have to have the knowledge that I have now!
Go out and have some fun!!!Be yourself,, above all else,, no games and all should be fine!
Good LUCK!!!
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I have an anxiety disorder, so certain things make me feel sick and freak out, like this for instance lol I really don't want to pass him up like I did with a bunch of other guys
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No anxiety attach required on this one,,,, he already likes you,, sweety just be the person he already likes and you will be ok,, don't let a good guy go!!!! They are precious and few!
Go and forget about being nervous and let the butterflies just fly through your tummy! (easier said than done,, you say,, nah!) just be you!
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Sometimes you just have to go for it. I have always found it hard to ask a guy out, but most guys really like it when a woman asks them out-it puts the pressure off of them.I say-go on, ask!
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Hi, Find out your feelings about yourself and where they originated. I use to have anxiety, too.
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i have anxiety too. its tough, hey? but you will regret it if this opportunity passes you by. before you see him/speak to him, just take time to totally chill out and calm down. if you need to, take deep breaths (maybe not too deep/loudly while you're with him lol). the initial step is the hardest, but sooner or later you'll learn to relax around him.
good luck!!!
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Butterflies about a new partner are great. Go for it but take it slow. Enjoy yourself!!!
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it is hard to know what is real and what is a dream, trust your intuition ....
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I get anxiety from fear of the unknown and thinking how things will go befor they ever happen.Maby you are putting to much presure on your self and thinking to hard about it.Juat take it slow.If he knows about your condition has already excepted you.Just remember to always be open about your self and communication is important in any relationship.
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Non-verbal communicating is greater than mere words.

Enjoy yourself without the need to say anything.

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try to just be in the moment, here and now when you are with him, you'll see, you probably will forget about the anxiety at that time. Don't let the anxiety defeat you, that's what it tries to do. And the worst that can happen, you will have an anxiety attack and he will support you if he likes you. But don't worry, just understand it's anxiety and that's ok.
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Man, thank you so much for all the useful advice! I really needed it, and really appreciate it! If anything happens, I will letcha know. =)
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sometimes whtne things are going well, i get anxious because i fear the rug is going to be pulled out from underneath me. sometimes the rug never does, but if i'm always waiting for it to happen i don't enjoy the moment....i've been married 11 years, i still get nervous when i get ready to go out with my hubby sometimes......hang in there girl and try to enjoy the good things, not fear them.....hugs!
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