I'm trying this again!, For some reason it did not save when I did this yesterday. I am a 32 year old married male, we have a 2 yr. old son. As of this past fall (when I forced to close my own small company due to the failing economy), I am a temporary stay at home dad who is deperatly looking for more work. My wife is more than happy to have me doing all of the house work and then some while she is putting in 40(+) hours a week in as a realtor (she loves being back to work again full time). We live in a small town in the hills of northern California where there is just not any work right mow. The problem is and started several months ago and getting worse, that prblem is: My wife just seems to not want to be around me anymore. She finds things to do to keep her at work longer, stuff to do at home or else where that does not include me (or sometimes our son). We had a great sex life but, that declined to basically, only when she is feeling really horny and the intimacy and romance in it are totally gone. There were a lot of small things that over the last month or so, started to pile up enough to make me wonder and ask her if there was someone else. She said "NO", and got all upset, hurt and pissed off at me. I believe what she told me, but it's hard, we don't kiss or hug anymore, and she does not tell me she loves me unless I say it first, and not even then at times. I make sure that she has plenty of "ME" time so that she can relax and do whatever she needs to do, but the more space I give, the more she wants. We are seeing a couples therapist but, last week was our first time back in about 7 weeks because, my wife kept cancelling our appointments. I have tried talking with her and she says that she will focus on us more but, does the opposite. I have become so depressed, confused, and even a bit scared that I have enrolled to start seeing a therapist on my own as well. I don't know what is really going on (she keeps saying, "nothing") and I don't know what else to do or where to turn. Please help if you can!
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