Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years. We had one break up for 3 weeks in the middle.
We tell each other where we are going and doing.
Yesterday he was working so I phoned him when I thought he should be almost done. To ask if I can see him. He said he was already with a friend having a beer and he is not leaving there now. I was upset that he didn’t tell me also becuase this is the 3rd that he just goes out with this guy who just started at his company and he just doesn’t tell me. Or he says he has to drop of keys but he gets dressed up before he goes.... this guy is divorced and the kids live with the mom
Eventually his phone died and I only heard from him again late last night when I phoned he said he can’t talk to me on the phone because his friends girlfriend is Cutting his hair. They live in another town. I eventually went to bed he wasn’t replying to my messages and usually when he goes there he stays for the whole of Sunday also.
When I got up this morning I phoned him and he didn’t pick up, he eventually send a message and said morning and that he was home. I had to go to a work meeting and afterwards my friend that I haven’t seen in 4 months asked if I can help her shop for some decor for her lounge so I said yes.
When he messaged me he wanted to know what I’m doing after the meeting so I said she asked if I can go along and I said yes.
Thats when he said I complain I don’t see him but now he has time but I rather want to hang out with my friends and why am I upset that he just goes out with his friends because I just do whatever I want to do. I didn’t arrange with him that I would be seeing my friend today and I’m just doing what I want. And I just see it from my side.
I really feel like I didn’t do anything wrong becuase he sees his friends weekly and I never see my friends because if I do it’s an issue, and seeing as I haven’t seen her in 4months helping her out isn’t a problem. I eventually told her I can’t stay and just went home, but he insist that I just do whatever I want and he isn’t my puppet. I am really hurt these things are happening often and I always just leave it but it just hurts so much.
Please tell me if I was wrong
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