Hi, I'm new here and I want to try to get some advice on an issue I am having. I and my current girlfriend are having issues with trust and opening up to each other. Her current issue with me is that I am not who I used to be. She says that I am not as loving or open as I used to be therefore she can not come to me with her problems anymore. My current issue with her is that I don't feel the same level of comfort with her that I should. We have been together for over a year and I believe she truly loves me and I really love her. Our communication methods are very poor. For about 6 weeks things have spiraled out of control from where I stand and probably her too. I feel like she has tried to ruin my reputation on several occasions, accused me of cheating on her, violated my privacy and lost my trust after something personal she told me that happened. All I want to do is talk about the way I feel, but I can't do that without her feeling bad and start attacking me for everything that I don't do. I just want to know how I can try to fix things with her, like I want to discuss these issues with her, but when I tried to talk about how I feel, she turned it back on me. What can I do? Also what can she do? Thanks for reading this long message.
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