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My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for about 3 years. About a year ago, I was at my friend's birthday party and I had a lot too much to drink and i kissed a guy i used to date (that i dislike). I was devastated when i realized what had happened, however I never told him because i did not want something that didn't mean anything to upset our friendship and relationship. I still think i did the right thing, but sometimes the thought creeps up on me and I feel awful.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I can see why you think you may very well be doing the right thing, but it is still nothing I would choose to do.
Even knowing that it might make things worse, I'm afraid I would feel compelled to 'fess up'.
Secrets are not something that I would want to be a part of my relationship with someone I love.
If the situation were reversed, I would rather know the 'horrible truth', must as it would break my heart.
It feels like a matter of respect to me, and I have the utmost respect for the man whom I love. If I fell down in showing him respect, by kissing someone else, I would feel like it should be up to him to decide whether or not it 'meant anything'.
and your only human
dont worry about it
put it behind you and move on
have you learnt anything from this? if the answer is yes then your guilt has served a purpose,, forget about it and move on
if this were me, i'd be asking myself why this happened (does lean on the drink; there still had to be a motivation of some sort whether it makes sense or not) and then make my decision.