Healthy Relationships Support Group
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this is alot to take in but its pretty serious to me. i just found someone on myspace who i havent sceen in forever. to bad he is someone i had a HUGE thing for and now i'm all bummed. i would still like to be friends. but i see him all happy with that girl- his wife. and then i think, i have a husband and a son, and i still wish that i was her. i dont know if its because of my husband and i fighting, or is it that i just dont really love him anymore? i dont know how i feel anymore. i think i love my husband, but i dont know if its because of our son together or if i really do. i always thought that if i married and was really in love i would not stop being in love, i wanted to find the right person and i dont know if i have him or if i let him pass by me. i really couldnt stop him he thought he was in love with some other girl and i was just a stupid teenager falling all over him. i was dumb and i might have scared him off.... but i am married now and still i think about this other guy. i feel soo bad thinking of other men. is this a sign i dont love him. i always took it as a sign the relationship wasnt going passed dating back in high school. are these feelings just because i didnt date more after highschool. i really wish i knew what i wanted but i guess we never do really know. i feel like i'm almost cheating on my husband when i think of my feelings for this other guy i had or still have or... god i dont know myself anymore. (hope you all dont think i'm crazy)
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
"(hope you all dont think i'm crazy)"
No.
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You feel you love more than one person at the same time?
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"was" and "barely" are the words that jump out.
You sure you feel anything for either ?
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I think you want your freedom more than anything.
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I saw my ex (THE one) a short time ago and felt nothing. That's how I knew I was in love with my boyfriend.
Just my 2 cents.
Unfortunately, after being married for a while, you fall into roles, & life seems to revolve itself around responsibilities. You develop pet peeves about one another & tend to get under the other's skin.
You can possibly reignite the flame by trying to remember what things were like when you & hubby had first met. Have some weekend getaways. Do something special. Make some memories & try to foster intimacy, sharing of feelings, thoughts, etc.
Unfortunately, I think marriage can get dull & lifeless because we fall into a routine. It needs to be shaken up & given new life. We have to figure out how to appreciate one another & provide comfort & esteem to one another. Hopefully, the comfort & esteem isn't found thru another individual. This is what drives marriages apart.