I was seeing this guy whom I have known for quite sometime and him and I have had feelings for each other for a long time. We finally got the chance to be toghether and it started off so strong He came in full force ans was so happy and he wanted to marry me and blah blah blah...we talked about the fact that i have three kids and can have no more and he was ok with that. I felt like he was coming on too strong and told him we needed to slow down, as i just got out of a 17yr relationship and did not want to fall too hard only to lose and have to rebuild my life all over again. He seemed ok with it but from that point on he kept telling me how strongly he felt for me but his actions spoke differently and in volumes. He would say how he wants to be here with us and when he is not he misses us, he would make plans to be here and never show up and always have some fucked up lie of an excuse as to why he never made it. It became one let down after another and finally it has ended. I just dont understand why he would say he wanted the things he wanted but act differently??????? Can someone, anyone, please help me to make heads or tales of this or just open my eyes up to some kind of understanding?
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