I've had a suspicion that my husband has been cheating. I've seen e-mails from his ex girlfriend whom he cheated with before. About a month ago my best friend told me he was cheating that he'd seen him. He died a week later. Now I'm lost my husband swears that he's innocent and i just don't believe it. The problem is that we have a 5 month old son. I'm currently unemployed and can't find a job anywhere. So separation is pretty much out of the question. Another thing is even before i suspected cheating i've been miserable. He's so lazy on top of taking care of my son i take care of him. I pick up after and he makes a mess again leaving it for me to pick up. He's "accidentally" raped me before saying he thought i wanted it, he was asleep and doesn't remember. After my c-section he still expected me to do the laundry which is supposed to be out of the question. After i left for a day he said that he was going to change so now he attempts to do the laundry but ends up leaving it there for me to do it. He works all of one day a week he claims he asks for more hours but i doubt it. He's 20 years old and we still live with his mom. He has no intention i think of moving out. It drives me nuts all he does is sit on his ass and watches TV and throws a fit if i argue. He acts like a child, he thinks a single "I love you " ends a fight and makes it all better. Please tell me am i over exaggerating or what??
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