I am new to the group. I am getting married in the fall. It has been a very long road for me to be comfortable enough to let someone in and trust them. My fiance is my world and has been my saving grace. There is just one issue that concerns me. It almost seems silly, but our issue is Sex. I feel like we are on a strict schedule of no intimacy until the weekends. I feel like I have to schedule an appointment with him to get a little action. There are no spontaneous moments of passion. No emotion involved. I mean we do get down to it, it is wonderful. It is just the in between time? It is very difficult for me to discuss issues with my fiance because I dont want him to be upset, even though he never gets upset with me. I just hate the idea of conflict. I grew up with conflict my whole life. I know that this issue is minute compared to most, I just am terrified that this could break us in the long run. And that would tear me apart; after all we have gone through together. It is kinda of late for meso this could be rambling. Any advice?
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