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I'm new here so hi everyone. Anyway on to my story. I've been engaged now for about 5 mos, my whole relationship has been great up until about 3 mos ago when we moved in together. I'm really regretting it. He says it's my fault that I'm upset that nothing he does makes me happy but that's not true. I love everything he does. The problem is that I feel no passion from him, the way he looks at me, and when he kisses me. He thinks it's in my head but why if he's been like this the whole time would this just start bothering me. I asked him why he wanted to be with me and he said because he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. There are so many more reasons I want to be with him, so is love really enough? I don't know maybe I'm crazy but I'm so sick of being upset everyday. Please somebody help me. Thanks.
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Early days.

I was always told that the first 10 years are the worst :-)

Time is a factor I'm afraid. Love and reality are two different entities.

Patience and perseverance are required.

Good luck.
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It is differant when you live together. That is when people share there true colors. When your not living together there is time between your house and his to unwind, from work school or whatever. I think it is normal. Also maybe you got out of the beginning stages and then its building on mutual trust, respect, etc
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Maybe try and stop the little niggly things getting amplified would help ?

Good Luck.

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deleted_user
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OH dear the honeymoon is over before you even started.BigBeeper is right.I do worry about where the passion and desire went.Thats not cool.
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