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I asked this last night but I think my post got removed because I can't find it anywhere.
I would like advice/ another perspective on a problem I have in my poly relationship. I have a hard time coping when my partners argue, which is just about everyday. They seem to be in a power struggle mostly over their baby and I get sucked into the middle and I hate it.
Any ideas on how to cope with this? It gets so bad that sometimes I feel like walking out but when it is good it is so utterly amazing I can't express it in words. Overall I have never been in such an understanding and supportive relationship but the fighting is driving me nuts.
Any ideas? The more the merrier!!!
I would like advice/ another perspective on a problem I have in my poly relationship. I have a hard time coping when my partners argue, which is just about everyday. They seem to be in a power struggle mostly over their baby and I get sucked into the middle and I hate it.
Any ideas on how to cope with this? It gets so bad that sometimes I feel like walking out but when it is good it is so utterly amazing I can't express it in words. Overall I have never been in such an understanding and supportive relationship but the fighting is driving me nuts.
Any ideas? The more the merrier!!!
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